Todd V Programs LIVE DEBRIEF AND Q+A 04/24/22 Пикап тодд mentoring program

(0:19) Reminder (0:52) I can get girls, but I have had little success with the quality I desire, so I have the belief that “the girls I want don’t want me.“ Advice for that one? (3:46) So basically, I shouldn’t act out of character, especially with the girl I like? (5:35) How to overcome the fear of being “found out“ in set that you’re inexperienced with girls and have a poor understanding of female nature? (9:15) What values matter more in getting sexual attraction? I.e If u r in shape and rich but lack in areas like confidence & social proof, is that still good enough? (12:19) Made out with 3 girls at the same time. Later on, tried to pull, AMOGd well, but the girls left for a mansion party and drugs. How do I prevent this and jadedness? (15:19) Note on specific game questions and situations (15:44) (Live question) When I was trying to pull them, I walked out of the venue and the girls were making out with the guys. I pulled all three away and then the guys went “Hey that’s our girlfriends“. And I looked at them weirdly and they said “Nah, I’m kidding but you can’t come with us“. So the guys were throwing themselves under the bus, but it seemed like, even in that scenario, I couldn’t have more value or more anything. So was that a complete lost cause scenario? (18:32) What is missing in my game if I struggle to get attraction in the first place? How do overcome this sticking point? (20:05) Any strategies to avoid feeling like you have no value to offer when approaching hot girls, and interrupting their day? (24:15) Should you avoid showing that you really like a particular girl? (27:32) I feel like that’s also trying not to mess it up instead of playing to win. I definitely fall into that trap if I start feeling she’s really special, etc. (28:02) Hi Todd. Yesterday I started talking to a girl at a bachelorette party. She liked me and so did her friends. I tried to seed/feel out the pull but the logistics were ultimately bad (I think). They were all staying in the same Airbnb, I asked her if she wanted to go get a drink at another bar with me but she obviously was with the bachelorette party. Thoughts? (31:38) Another question. There was a guy and two girls sitting at a high-top table at a big, outdoor mega bar in my area. It was quiet enough that I could just approach and project my voice to all three, and immediately one girl said “Why are you talking to us?“ and before I could even try to respond the two girls turned around. I understand sometimes there are tough blowouts, any thoughts besides this? (33:37) Todd doing combinatorics and living in Boston. (33:44) In this case of unideal scenarios, which is best: 1. Winging with someone who studies game but lacks humanity & soul 2. Winging with a friend who is oblivious to game but you have good fun with 3. Going solo (36:45) Hey Todd, been flooded with approach anxiety before but now I just approach. I usually open with a push-pull and the girls seem interested and they giggle but they always say “I have to go“ and the set ends. Any tips? (38:43) Shit test exercise (39:18) You mentioned something about how many sexual partners are normal for women. I think the specific context you mentioned was that the difference between 1-2 partners and 7-8 is pretty negligible. So what are the “normal“ numbers of partners, according to the general societal narrative, and also if we look at sex as no big deal and normal and natural for a healthy young person? (41:05) Shit test exercise - First student (41:28) Second student (45:21) Third student (46:50) (Live question) So how do I bridge the gap between me agreeing and exaggerating to the point it’s obvious to everybody? Because to me, it’s obvious the girl is full of shit. (49:23) Fourth student (50:45) Fifth student (51:20) (Live Question) I’m getting this one very often and I’m not sure how to answer. Sometimes I pronounce things wrong and girls just jump into it and make it clear I said it wrong. They make fun of my speech, etc. (54:40) You mentioned that on a date, I could downplay in the beginning, so she would feel like the whole interaction was going up. Is this strategy applies to the relationship too? (57:12) Can a girl be attracted to you despite her friends not approving of you? Or is the approval of her friends required to sleep with her? (58:32) After the open, I asked ‘I’m curious about you, what’s your story. Her response was ‘What’s your story?’, Shit test? If yes, any suggestions on how to handle it? (1:00:37) Could you talk more about disqualifiers, “deal breakers,“ for when you actually want to reject the girl? (1:01:59) How to create the ambiguity of sexual tension, so she wants to invest more?