Todd V Dating Programs Todd V Weekly Q&A #6 тодд пикап

Weekly Q&A #6 — 8/29/21 Date: 8/29/21 (3:35) How to eliminate neediness and outcome dependence? Especially needing positive reactions. Otherwise, I feel I’m not doing the right things in set & stuck in my head. (8:19) In game, Is “seriousness“ generally seen as more attractive to women than being goofy and funny all the time? Considering they’re both not supplicating. (9:57) Best way to get a girl out of logical thinking? Since she’s more likely to give objections in that state. Do you simply have to be funny and make her laugh? (12:31) How do you become scarce in her head? I always feel like hot girls have access to high value guys they can sleep with anytime. (15:47) What’s the easiest and most productive way to get over a bad breakup, and back into the game, while being on a dry spell for almost a year (aka very needy). (25:14) Can you raise the limit on the character count? I understand why it’s needed but it can be tough to get more specificity on the questions with just 160 characters. (28:21) Ideally, I want to have a rotation of girls I’m seeing once a week but I want them to not hook up with other guys when I’m not around, is it possible in the real world? (31:01) How long should you wait before establishing the premise? If you do it quickly I only have my appearance for her to judge me on. (32:31) How to avoid getting black pilled? (34:54) How to make game tactics like disqualifiers, push pulls, qualifying the girl sound more convincing? Sometimes the girl feels like I’m being try-hard, and bluffing. (37:27) Opening indirect, and casual when a girl is walking down the street with headphones feels incongruent because it’s a big effort to open. Should I open direct? (39:43) I’m having trouble with the pacing of texts with numbers and online. Is there a general flow of how long and often you should be texting before getting them out? (42:54) 9/10 - Daygame - After I instigate negativity, the girl responds but is not fully engaging, answering shortly... How can I make it a win from this situation? (44:48) I’ve heard the statement “she’s not yours it’s just your turn“ a lot in the community. Is there any validity to this or just another toxic belief? (49:25) How to make night game numbers more solid? Particularly, what’s the difference in strategy for a 5 min interaction vs a long one where you’re with her for hours? (51:00) Is posting stories of you hanging out with other girls you’re seeing a bad idea? I’ve heard you say that girls don’t like guys who are sleeping with other women. (52:02) What’s the best way to “punish“ bad behaviors from a girl you’re seeing? I.e she’s being complacent, pulling back all the time, and not respecting you (53:24) How to stop feeling unfair? I feel dating is like an interview, which the girl is screening me and I have to pass. (55:22) How to be less lonely? I feel like I often long for love and become very needy. (55:49) How to escalate to sex after the kiss? Any specific things to keep in mind? Can you give some examples of two steps forward, one step back? (57:44) But when you project these frames it might be seen as you are trying to impress, no? (58:30) How to get better at holding the frame without being weird or creepy? (1:00:05) Some guys have “confirmation bias“, they focus on the negatives and end up reinforcing negative beliefs about the world and themselves when they go out. (1:00:30) I want to start building value and creating sexual tension. I can do both but which should I prioritize to speed up my progress? (1:02:05) 240 characters should be the sweet spot. (1:05:02) I find myself not approaching because I find the majority of girls aren’t hot enough. I start to get negative between sets. What’s your view on this subject? (1:06:03) Better to establish premise as soon as possible after the open? (1:06:34) When I go out for a day game session I somehow often get into a logical paradox that no girls are good enough to approach. (1:09:08) Advice for a beginner who is pushy instead of letting the girl chase? (1:10:54) What are your thoughts when a girl gives you a shit test or acts standoff-ish? (1:11:49) What’s your opinion on the book Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi? (1:13:10) I find that the girls who chased me the most, normally I did nothing to really attract. (1:14:05) I’ve been told that the Seattle Market particularly sucks for dating. Do you have any tips for my specific region? (1:16:54) What advice would you give to someone who is too worried about being perceived as creepy, weird, or doesn’t want to make the girl feel uncomfortable when he’s trying something outside his comfort zone socially. Especially things like escalation and sexualization.