Mortify, Exit: Red Pill Narcissistic Abuse (Relationship Awareness Theory)

Exit the narcissist’s prison, Truman show, or matrix: take the red pill! Mortify the narcissist and abandon him: confront, humiliate/reflect, then soothe. Soothing him creates internal mortification (he cannot cast you as the evil one and has to blame himself for his predicament). Mortification is combo projection, introjection, and acting out. Attachment style determined in early childhood and is about object constancy (absence/presence): created by balance between anxiety/fear (of engulfment or hurt) and need to be loved.