15 Ways to Lose Your Dog’s Trust

Dogs are often called a man’s best friend because they’re loyal and make great companions. But it’s not unheard of for an owner and their dog to fall out. While it goes without saying that a dog will lose trust in its owner if they’re not properly cared for and are abandoned, there are other behaviors and approaches that some dog owners get wrong, which could damage the bond they’re trying to build with their pet. In this video, we will talk about 15 ways you can lose your dog’s trust, and you must avoid them. Forcing your dog to do things they don’t want to do. It’s crucial that dog owners refrain from forcing their dogs into situations or environments that they’re not comfortable with. Whether they’re afraid of the vacuum, a particular person, or a place (like the vet!), pushing a pup into a setting that they feel anxious in could lead to a loss of trust in their owner. If your dog is resistant to something, it’s important to respect their boundaries and not force them to do it. If your pet is scared of the vet or the groomer, ease them into the situation with treats. Taking their things away a lot This might be something we don’t consider very important, like a toy, but that toy could be your dog’s most beloved possession. If your dog loves its favorite tennis ball or bone and you frequently take them away from your pet against their will, it can damage your relationship and foster feelings of distrust. Those bones and toys that they love shouldn’t be used as leverage. Teasing Them There are lots of viral videos of humans teasing dogs. People find it funny to ride a big dog, pull on their tail, bark at a dog, or scare them during a deep sleep. Most of these “jokes” aren’t funny to dogs, and they find them annoying more than anything. Too much teasing could cause damage your relationship with your pet. Calling them for something they don’t like Dogs get excited when you call them because they expect attention, treats or rewards. When you call your pet when something unpleasant is about to happen, like being forced into a bathtub or leaving the dog park, it can hurt their feelings and foster feelings of distrust. Make sure not to use the “come” command to punish your dog. Physical Punishment or Harsh Discipline: Using physical punishment, yelling, or any form of harsh discipline can damage the trust your dog has in you. Your dog may associate you with fear and pain, leading to anxiety and a breakdown in the bond you share. Instead of punishment, use rewarding techniques such as healthy treats, praise, and toys to tell her what she can do, rather than telling her off for showing behavior you don’t want her to do. Being overly corrective with your dog. Many dog owners confuse caring for their dogs with treating them like babies. it’s important to remember that a dog is a dog and it needs to be treated as such. Expecting a dog to do things he simply cannot or has no understanding of, may lead to anxiety and confusion. Some dog owners discourage their dogs from certain inherent behaviors such as sniffing urine, sniffing each other from behind, or digging in dirt. In these situations, we are not caring for our furry friends, but preventing them from expressing their natural instincts. You force them to be social. Although dogs are, by nature, a social pack animal, it doesn’t mean all dogs want to be social all the time. Some develop phobias of men, strangers, or children that can lead to dangerous situations. And a friendly dog won’t necessarily be friendly with all other dogs. They’re still territorial and, just like us, meet people or dogs they simply don’t bond with. Neglecting Them Failing to provide proper food, water, shelter, exercise, and medical care can make your dog feel neglected and unimportant. When their basic needs are not met, it can lead to physical and emotional distress, which can strain your bond with them. Remember, if you’re not taking care of your dog’s basic needs, they’re not going to feel safe or secure with you. Taking their food away For most dogs, the act of eating is a personal moment, and they prefer to be on their own. When your dog is eating, respect their bliss and let them be. Taking their food away during mealtimes will agitate your pet and lead to stress. They may associate you walking up to their bowl with their food being taken away, which can damage the trust between you and your dog. Minimize dish handling and let your pooch enjoy their meal. You hug them too tight. Even though it’s tempting, full-body hugs aren’t good for dogs. A hug is usually threatening or unwelcome to them, especially if your dog is new to your family. If your dog doesn’t enjoy hugs and kisses, respect their boundaries and pet your dog where they are most comfortable with. Every dog is different so look out for any signs they are showing stress – these can be very subtle – a few examples being tense or wide eyes and licking their lips