The Top Things a Guy Could Do on a Date that Would Make Me want to Sleep With Him

The video that changed my life: The Tips which I will try to express more articulately below: To create chemistry and increase the likelihood of her going home with you: 1. You must be evaluating her during the conversation and expressing to her that you find her desirable, aesthetically, intellectually and sexually (if applicable). Intersperse abrupt seeming compliments into your conversation. The effect on her will be to remember that you see her in a sexual or sexually charged at least, light-- as a MAN not just as a friend. These compliments can be non threatening and polite--all the way up to “mode one“ style blunt, honest and direct that you find her extremely sexually attractive....(that should be saved for later in the night though once you establish a good rapport). They all have the same affect on a girl which is that she remembers that this is an exciting, sexually charged experience, not just a conversation with a friend. 2. Touch her hand quickly. I forgot to mention in the video that you should never try to touch a girl inappropriately but hand or elbow or non sexual parts of the body very quickly do have an effect. Try to get some non sexual touch involved if you can. It does work. 3. Always ask her at the end of the date if she wants to come over to your place to hang out in a non pressure filled way. Say you want to show her something you mentioned in the conversation. This will give her an excuse to come over if she wants to. Whether she says no or yes, the fact you asked shows you have confidence. I respected this and it increased the guy’s attractiveness in my eyes. Often I only considered going over just cause I was impressed they had the confidence to ask. 4. Don’t make the mistake of not going in for the kiss just because she isn’t telegraphing to you that she is 100% in. You can ASK if it is ok if you are not sure. That is fine. But try to sit near her, near enough to kiss her when the time is right. 5. If you get in bed with a girl, never rush, be impatient with her or expect her to return the favor in a demanding way. Be generous, be patient. Expect nothing in return. Sex is not transactional. Put her first. She will see that you respect her and are generous and want to return the favor in time. When guys became too pushy and wanted to rush into what was in it for them, I was extremely turned off and often left. 6. Compliment her frequently during the makeout. And if you’ve gotten something from my videos and want to buy me a coffee or send me a note or a tip, I would greatly appreciate that. venmo: mynonleatherlife paypal: mynonleatherlife@ Email: mynonleatherlife at gmail Buy me a coffee: Thank you so much for watching and commenting! -Victoria